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Guest Post: Number 1 Myth about Death
Sunday, November 22, 2009 This post was submitted by Zohra Sarwari (Life Coach/ Professional Speaker/Author) www.ZohraSarwari.com
The number 1 myth about death is that many people say that “death won’t happen to me.”
3 Reasons why Death can happen to You
- The first reason that death can happen to you is because death is the only thing that no one know about except the Creator of the heavens and earth. Allaah (SWT) only knows when it is time for us to go. Always keep this in mind “Today could be my last day.”
- The second reason that death can happen to you, is because death has no age. It doesn’t matter if you are young or old, everyone dies. If you don’t know of anyone dying at your age, look in the news. You will find people of all ages that die daily.
- The third reason death can happen to you is because death has no date. This meaning your date is a surprise. You will never escape it or run away from it.
What do I suggest to do since this is impossible to runaway from? Learn about death. Read books about it, more than anything find out who your Creator is. It is amazing, but I see so many people living life with no purpose and no peace, because they don’t know what will happen to them at the end. I would search for answers, for the truth, and not stop at just what people tell you, ask God the Greatest for that guidance. Find truly why you are living, and then and only then will you be able to die a peaceful death.
And now I would like to offer you the “5 ingredients to Happiness” at www.zohrasarwari.com I would also encourage you highly to read the book “Imagine that Today is Your Last Day” http://zohrasarwari.com/last_day_sales_ltr.html
Guest Post: Blessings of Seeking Knowledge
Friday, November 20, 2009 Kanika is an engineer by profession, currently pursuing bachelors in Islamic Sciences through Arees Institute, keen student of knowledge, involved in giving halaqas and regularly does one-on-one motivational talks with sisters. She is the founder of Habibi Halaqas - http://habibihalaqas.org (a for sisters-by sisters project).
‘Knowledge is power’. How many times in our lives have we heard this phrase ? How many times have our parents, teachers, elders stated this same thing over and over again. This quote by Sir Francis Bacon emphasizes that when you have knowledge you have authority. It alludes to the fact that there is something about acquiring knowledge that gives you possession of controlling influence. But more importantly, I would like you to note that this is a non-Muslim phrase (not said by some Muslim scholar) which has only been around since 1597.
The teachings of religion of Islam came to us well over 1400 years ago. From the beginning of revelation there was an emphasis on seeking and acquiring knowledge. I remind you that the first words of revelation were “Read!”
“Read! In the Name of your Lord, Who has created (all that exists)” [Alaq, 96:1]
The intention of this article is not so much to remind you the importance of seeking knowledge. It is assumed that the readers understand that as Muslims we have been commanded to seek knowledge.
The quest for knowledge is a compulsion on every Muslim. [Hadeeth Hassan]
Note: The knowledge referred to above is knowledge in deen because that is the only knowledge that is Waajib (compulsory)
The main goal of this article is to provide you with the motivation to continue to seek Islamic and take joy and pride in doing this act of worship because we can understand from various Quranic statements and ahadith (statements of the prophet (saws)) that , there are definite returns for these efforts in form of reward and blessings from Allah (subhana wa ta’ala).
Raised Status and Rank
“Allah will exalt those who believe among you, and those who have knowledge, to high ranks.” [Al-Mujaadilah, 58:11]
Let us take a hypothetical scenario where YOU work for a reputable company and one fine day your boss entices you with a promotion upon completion of a certain project under your lead. I can guarantee you that you would put your heart and soul into it to get that promotion. Well ! Allah wants to give you promotion, not just in this duniya but in jannah ! Scholars agree that the term “high ranks” in this statement refer to bounties in this world and the hereafter. Just because the promises of jannah are intangible at the moment should not let us ignore such a huge blessing of seeking knowledge. We have to believe in the ayats (verses, signs) of our Lord.
Superiority over all beings
“And He taught Adam all the names, and then showed them to the angels, saying: Inform Me of the names of these, if you are truthful. They said: Glory is to You! We have no knowledge but that which You have taught us; surely You are the Knowing, the Wise. He said: “Oh, Adam! Tell them their names.” When he had told them, Allah said: “Did I not tell you that I know the secrets of heaven and earth, and I know what you reveal and what you conceal?” And behold, We said to the angels: “Bow down to Adam” and they bowed down…” [Al-Baqarah, 2:31-34]
When Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) taught Adam (as) the names of all things, He asked the angels and Iblis (who had reached the level of angels) to prostrate to Adam (as). I remind you that angels are pure creations of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala). They are made of light, in complete obedience to Him and are doing tasbih (saying subhan Allah) at all times. Such a pure creation of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) was commanded to show respect to our great great great … grandfather, Adam (as) who was made of clay and was prone to sinning. This prostration as a form of respect took place based on one and only one factor i.e. knowledge.
I remember hearing in one of Michelle Obama’s speeches which she delivered at an all girls high school, she told the students that she was where she was only because of education. Even in this duniya the way to gain superiority over other human beings is through knowledge – you get a better income, you enjoy a more luxurious lifestyle, you have a higher reputation in the society. But to be higher in the Eyes of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) you have to be knowledgeable in your deen and this is how you truly will become superior to all other creations of Allah.
Scholars truly understand the Qur’an
“And such are the Parables We set forth for mankind, but only those who have knowledge understand them.” (Al-‘Ankaboot, 29:43)
Scholars agree that this ayah is actually referring to all people of knowledge (and not just the scholars). People of knowledge who read/learn/understand the Quran are the ones who truly understand the parables mentioned in the Quran. The parables mentioned in the Quran are important in telling us which actions are harmful to our aakhira and hence, they should be avoided. They also guide us in which actions are more rewarding than others and hence, we should strive to do them.
Sign of Allah’s love for a person
“Whosoever Allah wishes good for, He gives him understanding (fiqh) of the Religion.” (Bukhari and Muslim)
As children we are always looking for signs of love for ourselves from our parents. If a parent buys gifts for their child the child is assured that his/her parents love him/her. Love and compassion from parents makes a child feel ecstatic and special. Allah tells us through the prophet (saws) that if He loves us He gives us understanding of the religion of Islam. The difference is that love of Allah is far greater than anybody’s love. Love of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) is the ultimate goal of this life.
However, this love does not come without striving, trying hard and putting in a lot of effort. You have to earn the love of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) by striving to gain Islamic knowledge – even if there are not many resources around you, even if the knowledge seems hard to retain, even if there are many distractions around you.
Statement of Imam Shaafie’
“After the obligatory deeds, nothing is more beloved to Allah than studying knowledge”
This statement holds the obvious meanings of how much Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) loves for a person to seek Islamic knowledge but it also a much deeper implication. The process starts off by gaining knowledge that is absolutely essential for a Muslim to perform their obligatory deeds. Once a person gets accustomed to performing obligatory deeds and do not find them burdensome anymore then because of the impact of knowledge they will automatically do acts that are more than obligatory.
Let us take an example of a sister who finds is hard to pray two sunnah raka’hs (units of prayer) at the time of fajr. She skips sunnah raka’hs and prays the obligatory units quickly and jumps back into bed. She takes a class where she learns of the great blessings of praying the sunnah units of fajr prayer. After gaining knowledge she made it a point not to miss her sunnah units of prayer.
Hadith of Abu Darda
“If anyone travels on a road in search of knowledge, Allah will cause him to travel on one of the roads of Paradise. The angels will lower their wings in their great pleasure with one who seeks knowledge, the inhabitants of the heavens and the Earth and the fish in the deep waters will ask forgiveness for the learned man.
(cont’d) The superiority of the learned man over the worshipper is like that of the moon, on the night when it is full, over the rest of the stars. The learned are the heirs of the Prophets, and the Prophets leave neither dinar nor dirham, leaving only knowledge, and he who takes it takes a big fortune.” [Abu-Dawud]
This hadith outlines multiple blessings of seeking knowledge but we will concentrate on two main benefits. The two main benefits of treading on the path of knowledge are the protection of angels and the du’a of the creatures.
Angels provide protect in two ways: they lower their wings for a student of knowledge i.e. they allow the student of knowledge to walk over their wings (much like a red carpet!). Also, the angels out of respect for the student of knowledge stop flying until the student has passed them. Allahu Akbar ! Once again I would like to remind you the purity of the creation of angels but knowledge allows us to gain a higher rank in the eyes of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala).
The inhabitants of the heavens and the earth make du’a for the student of knowledge. This includes the du’a of the angels and all creatures on this earth including ants and all the fish in the sea. This is a great honor for children of Adam !
Striving for knowledge is one of the best deeds you can do to attain mercy of Allah (subhana wa ta’ala).
Statement of Ibn Hazm (ra)
“If the learned ponders how the hours he spent learning saved him from the humiliation of being dominated by the ignorant and from the distress of having no access to the facts, and how those hours provided him with the joy of discovering that which is hidden from others, he would excel in praising Allah, the exalted, full of majesty, and would be more pleased with the knowledge he has and would deepen his desire to increase his knowledge.”
This is a beautiful statement by Ibn Hazm (ra). The direct implications of his statement are obvious. Possession of knowledge will save us from humiliation of being dominated by the commands of ignorant people. Moreover, possession of knowledge will save us from much distress of having no access to reliable and authentic information. Furthermore, possession of knowledge will give us joy of knowing that which others do not know. Correct knowledge allows us to worship our Lord in a better manner, a manner which pleases Him. Once we have the knowledge, we will become even more pleased with its advantages and benefits in our lives. This would deepen our desire to increase in knowledge. It is a sweet vicious cycle which takes initial effort and indulgence and once we taste the sweetness of knowledge we will get addicted to it.
Are you satisfied ?
“Two persons are never satisfied, one who is seeking knowledge, and the other who is seeking the world”
There is a disagreement about the above statement. Some say this is a hadith and some say it is a statement of Ali (ra). Either way, we concern ourselves with the beneficial message of this statement.
We have a choice in this world. We can either get addicted to duniya (Reminder: We will leave duniya after 60-80 years of life and leave everything of duniya behind ourselves). The other option is that we could get addicted to seeking knowledge (The benefits and blessings of seeking knowledge will reap heavy rewards on the Day of Judgment). The path of this duniya leads us away from Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) and the path of knowledge leads us towards Allah (subhana wa ta’ala). Likewise, the path of this duniya destroys our hereafter and the path of knowledge secures our hereafter. The choice is entirely ours.
When should you be jealous of others ?
“No one should be jealous of anything except two people – a man whom Allah has blessed with wisdom/ilm/Qur’an and he teaches it; and a man who has money and he spends it in the sake of Allah.” (Bukhari)
This hadith alludes to the etiquettes of seeking knowledge (a topic we will discuss in later articles in much greater detail in sha Allah). Prophet (saws) said in this hadith that you should not get envious of others for anything other than two things – one of them is knowledge. Observing other people with the knowledge of Quran and sunnah should make you feel envious and the idea is to use this feeling of jealousy to create avenues to gain knowledge. This hadith does not imply that we question Allah why He made the other person knowledgeable and why we weren’t given similar knowledge. Instead, we should ask Allah to make us learned in our deen.
"My Lord! Increase me in knowledge." [Taha, 20:114]
Conclusion
I hope this article has served as a motivation to continue to keep seeking knowledge because of the numerous benefits and blessings associated with it. Seeking knowledge will help us appreciate our deen, make better our connection with Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) and allow us to find solutions to our problems from the Qur’an and sunnah to simplify our lives.
Our next article will address some practical ways by which we can seek knowledge in North America bi’ithnillah.
Guest Post: 3 Tips ‘Expecting Mothers’ Should Know
Monday, November 16, 2009 This post was submitted by Sr. Zohra Sarwari, Life Coach/ Professional Speaker/ Author
Are you pregnant with your first child? Are you worried about what to expect? Not sure if you should eat for 2 or 1? I know exactly how you feel! In this article I will discuss 3 things every expecting mother should know:
1. Morning Sickness: This is usually the first indicator that you’re pregnant. Most women get really bad morning sickness while some get it mildly and others don’t get it all. Remember that you might not have morning sickness in the same way with all of your pregnancies.
2. Gaining Weight: Weight gain is inevitable with a pregnancy, however not to worry, I have gained weight with every pregnancy, and I have managed to lose it again. Just be aware that you will gain weight. However, do not believe the myth that you need to eat for two, because you don’t! Just eat your normal portions and stop when you’re full. This will prevent excessive weight gain. One way to keep yourself from gaining weight will be to go walking for 30 minutes a day.
3. Cut out Caffeine: Unless you’re drinking green tea, cut out all other caffeine drinks, like soda, coffee, tea, etc. This will be better for you and the baby; caffeine can increase the risk of miscarriage, the risk of low birth weight and premature birth, and can cause your bones to lose calcium, as well as increase both blood pressure and heart rate! Not to mention keep you awake at night!
Being a full-time mother is one of the highest salaried jobs in my field, since the payment is pure love.
~Mildred B. Vermont
I want to leave you on this note; motherhood is a blessing and a joy. No matter what happens during your pregnancy, always remember that it is gift inside of you, and accept it as you do all of your other gifts, with joy and delight!
For coaching on this topic, please email us at zohra@zohrasarwari.com
Interview with a ProductiveMuslimah: Heba Al Shareef (Part 1)
Monday, November 9, 2009 Bismillah walhamdullilah wasalatu wasalamu ala Rasoolilah wa’ala alihi wa’sahbihi wa manwala, wa ba’ad
Assalaamu Alaykum Warahmatulahi Wabarakatuhu
Welcome to the ProductiveMuslimah interview sister Heba – may I take this opportunity to say jazaakumullah khair for spending some time with us to inspire us and to give us all some productivity tips insha’Allah.
To begin insha’Allah:
Tell us a bit about yourself – a bio for our readers – so they can connect with you insha’Allah
I actually don’t really like talking about myself as I once did – maybe it’s because I’m getting older :) But I do love to connect with people and am happy to do the same with your readers insha’Allah.
My life roles include: teacher/mentor, (hopefully) inspirational writer, wife, and mother of five. But in all of these roles, I am firstly, a student – certain that I can learn more from those I interact with than they can learn from me. I’m always in the middle of at least 3 books and I’m trying desperately to kick a nasty caffeine habit.
2. What was your first project/venture?
Well, I don’t know if it’s my first project, but the concept of “Release Your Inner Queen of Sheba” has certainly been the one to resonate with the largest number of people. I began blogging with the idea that Muslim women have a legacy of strength and that if we learn to harness the confidence and drive and goodness that our mothers exemplified in the past – we could live our best lives today. Out of the blog came a number of other writing opportunities (including the book by the same name) and the chance to travel to many places and present to sister audiences the idea and format. Alhamdullilah, it’s been a tremendous blessing and keeps finding steam and new people that hear the message and seek to better their lives.
3. How do you manage your time? Workload/resources/people?
I am a big, big believer in deadlines. That’s what’s always worked for me. Parkinson’s Law is next – which says that work expands to fit the time that’s allotted to it. So, if a project is a big one – and there’s a lot riding on it, I give it more of its rights time wise too. This is my simple strategy to getting things done – but time management is a big issue that many need guidance with.
And because it’s an oft-requested one, I’ve actually written about it in the past and developed a workshop that deals with it extensively. I don’t believe that time management is as simple as making a “to do” list or waking up an hour earlier to get things done. I believe that there can be mental blocks or that we don’t fully comprehend the “why” of why we let things slide or how we lose focus on things that we really seek to do. When I hear things like “oh, I’d really like to do xyz – but I just don’t have the time,” I think, “okay, either they really don’t want to do xyz and are using lack of time as an excuse (even though they may not realize it) or they really don’t have time (in which case, they may be justified and shouldn’t be doing it anyway).”
And Allah SWT knows best. Like I say, the topic intrigues me and I hope to put my thoughts into a strategic guide one day soon inshaAllah. I just have to put a deadline on it :)
4. Tell us about your forthcoming book
InshaAllah, it’s coming in early 2010 and is titled “Seeking Solomon: The Muslim Woman’s Guide to Finding, Keeping, and Living Happily Ever After with her Life’s Mate.”
After Release Your Inner Queen of Sheba, which has a laid out guide (21 protocols to follow) for the Muslim woman to strengthen her own personal power, I felt it was time for her to learn how to translate that into mastering her marriage too. InshaAllah, people will benefit from it.
5. Did you ever want to give up? What kept you going?
Interesting question :) I think that there are definitely times when you want to give up –when things aren’t living up to your expectations of them – when you’re not doing what you want to be doing. And when you’re unhappy. Some people fear those times. But I don’t – I just look for the lessons, chalk it up to experience and move on. If I feel like giving up is warranted, I give up – and my new goals keep me going.
If you consider your life as a road – knowing what your destination is, knowing the end result that you’re looking for - then you always have something to fall back on. Perhaps something didn’t go your way, or you took a side road (thinking it might have been a short cut) and found it was a dead end. The important thing is always to get back to your road, to put one foot in front of the other, and to connect with the things that matter. Plus, you have to make sure not to dwell on “what might have been” or let bumps in the road paralyze you.
I keep meaning to write an article about it. Gotta put a deadline on it :)
6. How has your brother, Sheikh Muhammad AlShareef, influenced you?
I should probably not admit this, but many out there think that I’m the younger sister. Not true. So, amongst the children – isn’t the first born the one who does the majority influence? By force, if necessary? I’m just kidding.
Alhamudillah, we’ve been blessed with wonderful parents and I’m so proud of what my brother has accomplished and with the depth to which he’s influenced so many. He’s truly inspirational and sometimes in his classes (or when we discuss things) I find I’m not his sister – but his student, wanting to soak it all up. MashaAllah.
7. What do you think are the ingredients of a Productive Muslimah and what advice would you give to sisters reading this who seem to have lost focus or are struggling to stay productive?
I would assume that a Productive Muslimah is one who knows who she is, where she came from, and realizes that her potential is great. She understands her roles and responsibilities, seeks to please her creator, and in following her passions, finds authentic happiness. She realizes that every moment is a learning opportunity, a chance to let go of past “anti-productivity” and seize the moment to do something worthy. Every moment is a chance to do something beneficial, to make a difference, to be grateful, to aspire to make and to have hope that all the moments that follow will be as fruitful. And hope is a wonderful thing.
8. What are some of your future plans or projects/ventures which you would like to work on/are going to work on?
There are some remaining dates left on the “Release Your Inner Queen of Sheba” tour, so I look forward to meeting more sisters around the world. And I’m still blogging and writing for various Muslim outlets. There are some very talented others working on their own “iamsheba” books and it’s my intention to focus on ensuring that we continue to help other women “live the legacy” through a number of means. We have radio spots and programs that we do, and live seminars planned inshaAllah.
Personally, I continue to take classes and upgrade skills that I hope will bring benefit to others – hoping to branch out into other writing mediums. It’s about continually putting one foot in front of the other. Keep me in your duas :)
Jazaakumullah khair sister Heba for your time – we hope to speak to you very soon in our audio interview insh’Allah – part 2 – and until then we leave you with our duas from the ProductiveMuslimah team and sisters please do visit sister Heba’s website: http://iamsheba.com/.
W’salaam
ProductiveMuslimah
Interview with a ProductiveMuslimah: Tamara Redfern
Thursday, October 29, 2009 Interviews with ProductiveMuslims/ Muslimahs are back! After our initial success with the Interview with sister Zohra Sarwari, we thought we'd revive this feature on this blog and interview more Productive Muslims around the world to inspire us all inshaAllah.
Today we interview Sr.Tamara Redfern, Head Coach, Founder of SisterShine LifeCoaching
Assalaamu Alaykum Warahmatulahi Wabarakatuhu
Welcome to the ProductiveMuslimah interview sister Tamara – may I take this opportunity to say jazaakumullah khair for spending some time with us to inspire us and to give us all some productivity tips insha’Allah.
To begin insha’Allah:
1) Tell us a bit about yourself – a bio – so sisters can connect with you insha’Allah
My name is Tamara Redfern and I am the founder and head coach of SisterShine LifeCoaching. I am a mother, a wife, an artist, a life coach/personal development specialist and an educator. I am a dreamer, I am a poet, I am a singer and pretty much I am believer. A believer in Allah swt so therefore I am a believer in all things, that everything is possible if you believe in Him, if you put your faith in him first. Once you take that step forward and really give it your best effort- have no worries that it will fall through- because whatever it is that He wants for you is the best thing. That’s what it will come out to be-the best thing.
2) Why did you decide become a life coach and what inspired you?
I feel like I’ve been a coach my entire life. However something that inspired me to coach professionally was the death of my father (interestingly enough, tomorrow will mark 2 yrs that he passed away of prostate cancer). That was a major turning point in my life. He had been fighting the cancer for 2 yrs and when we found out that there were no other options for him, I realized that I could choose 1 of 2 ways of dealing with his death. I could lie in the middle of the floor and be angry with Allah for taking him “so soon” (I had already done that in 2005 – or I could try another way and plan out my reaction , plan my life’s course for when he was gone and how I wanted the whole experience to go.
Well I chose the latter and decided to do what he himself would have been proud to see me do. To live my life to the fullest, to SHINE. I love teaching and learning but my true passion -the thing I could do all day and night and only be more energized by it is- helping women live their lives fully without excuses and without holding back just SHINING! It’s like turning on a small lite bulb inside a dark room, a little bit of light can make a great BIG difference. Shining is taking what Allah has given to you and buffing it and polishing it and giving it back to Him. I LOVE to see sisters SHINE! That’s what really keeps me going.
3) How do you manage your time? Workload/resources/people?
As with everything else I am a work in progress when it comes to time management. I like to experiment with new ways to share with my clients. However, prioritizing and taking care of the rights and responsibilities I owe first is the most effective way to manage people, resources and work. Remembering I am a servant of Allah (swt) before I am a wife, mother or coach or anything helps me to keep my focus. That means making time to nurture that relationship with Him. Praying on time, fasting, listening to Quran etc. all things that bring me closer to Him. So when Allah comes first all other things will fall into place. It’s really so simple that it’s hard to believe. But when we try to do it the opposite we see how true it is. Allah, following the Sunnah, my family, my private time, my clients. That’s what works for me. And sometimes my private time has to move up closer to the number 3 spot but that’s ok too!
4) Did you ever want to give up? What kept you going?
There was a time when I wanted to give up. It was only for a short period, but at the time I had lost focus of why I wanted to coach and I began to look outside of myself for reassurance and direction. What kept me going was having shared my dream with a great friend who helped remind me what MY long term dreams were and that I was indeed still on that path. She helped me see that I was exactly where I had said I wanted to be and that was a good thing! I wasn’t living someone else’s dream I had actually plotted my own chart for success and landed right at my goal!
5) What are some of your success stories – in brief?
There is a group of wonderfully talented sisters that I have been honored to work with in my R2 Ramadan Revolutions Program. These sisters are committed to changing themselves in all areas of their lives and they are not looking for the quick fix or accepting excuses anymore. They are truly working on adopting new behaviors and manifesting serious growth in their lives! I am truly blessed to work with them. I have seen them grow by leaps and bounds in such a small amount time and I am excited to see what the rest of the year holds for them. Some of my other client’s testimonials are listed on my website as well.
6) What advice or inspirational words would you give to our sisters reading this interview?
My advice to sisters is to take time and go deep. Listen to what you say to yourself and to others and see if what you are saying is true or if it’s a lie. A lot of times we don’t do it. We don’t take the time to listen to ourselves and ask “what is that I’m saying to myself? What is this dialogue that I have going on in my mind” and it is a dialogue it’s not even a monologue with all the back and forth it’s like talking to ourselves. Ask yourself “how true is what I am saying? Do I believe it? And if I don’t believe it what is it that I’m going to do about it to change it?” Once you start asking yourself these questions write out your answers, talk out your answers , paint them , dance them do anything to express yourself and then ask some more questions. Once you get to this point you will start to unearth a lot of the things that were hidden there and perhaps you will find some more hidden talents too! So my advice in a nutshell is to dig deeper. (By the way – one of my jobs is to ask the really good, deep questions :) )
7) Do you have any future projects/ventures in the pipelines
Currently I am working on a book (I smile when I say this because now it’s like o.k. I’ve written about doing it, I’ve spoken about doing -it to someone else and now I’m saying/writing it in this interview). So Insha’Allah, be on the lookout in 2010 there is a book coming out. It’s a very personal project as it will have a lot of my work in it; my writings, my poetry and possibly some art as well. So you‘ll get to see another side of Sister Coach Tamara. In addition there are some other DYNAMIC projects I am working on at SisterShineLifeCoaching.com and some other upcoming sites. All throughout the year I will be introducing exciting new events and programs so visit SisterShineLifeCoaching.com for more updates on what’s new!
8) Some final inspirational and productivity advice to our sisters insha’Allah
Finally, my top two productivity tips and some inspirational advice: 1) stay in a state of wudu and fast. I know your thinking “Wudu? How will that help me to be more productive?” When you are in a constant state of wudu you can pray as soon as the salat is called. Stop –drop- pray. You get the blessing of continually being in wudu, you can read Quran at any given moment. It keeps the shaytan at bay. It’s like the quintessential success principle! As far as fasting, I notice once I am in the habit of fasting I don’t really bother with things that drain or consume my time without much benefit. I am calmer when dealing with my kids. I have less energy to waste and I realize that the important things must be done and small things can be brushed away. The last piece of inspirational advice I have is to practice the S3 Philosophy: Supporting Sisters’ Successes! It only comes back to you manifold!
Jazaakumullah khair sister Tamara for your time – we hope our readers have been inspired by your words insha’Allah and become more productive.
Sisters, please visit sister Tamara’s website: http://www.sistershinelifecoaching.com/. We leave you with our duas from the ProductiveMuslimah team!



